दोहा- भक्ति वंदन

 दोहा- भक्ति वंदन

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// ईश मेरे शाम //
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ईश तेरा छप छड़ जग, तू जाय कहूं ओर।

तुम बिन यज्ञ तप नाही, तुम संग सब छोर।।

देह मन सब तेरा ईश , तुम सकल आधार।

धन जन मन सब तेरा ईश, ना कोई आकार।।

राधा माधव रास रच, मन मगन सबका हो।

काहे पीड़ा रखे तू, ममता में रमा हो।।

भय ना कर कल की सोच, आज मैं जी जा तू।

फल की आशा ना कर अब, कर्म करता जा तू।।

आशिष मिल जाए तो, जगत अपना लागे।

हृदय तल आतुर हो, पर ही निज लागे।।

मन की सुन काम करो, हो ना असफल कभी।

दुविधा दूर हो तब, सम रूपी हो सभी ।।

शाम नाम पर हो रहा, असर मन में अपार।

मंगल कुसल शुभ हो, हर सब मन विकार।।

शाम सुमर निश दिन, परम ज्ञान वो पाय।

तब नाम संग जी लगा, सब जग जीवत जाय।।

LopaTheWriter

प्रतिरूप कहानी ---शिक्षा की सखी लोपा ( सीखा)

hi everyone,

After many years, I got the proper meaning of my names. I have written a story on it.

 शिक्षा की सखी लोपा ( सीखा)

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गाँव में नारा लग रहा था-" शिक्षामित्र योजना के तहत सर्वशिक्षा अभियान शूरू कर रहे हैं। सबको समान शिक्षा मिलेगा।" यह बात सुन आठ साल की लोपा ने पढ़ाई को अपना साथी बनाने की मन में ठान लिया। जो लड़की पढ़ाई में अच्छी थी, अच्छे अंक से सबको प्रभावित करती थी, उसे खुद ख़ुद पढ़ाई करना पसंद नहीं था। पता नहीं, नारेबाजी जब लग रही थी, तब वो आवाज़ कुछ तो झकझोर दिया उसके मन में। आँखों में कुछ अठखेलियां करने लगी। चुपचाप रहकर कुछ बातें बड़बड़ाने लगी। उसने अपने आप से जैसे वादा कर लिया कुछ बनकर रहेगी। चिकित्सक बनने को अपने मन को मना लिया। धीरे धीरे वक्त़ बीत गया। वो छोटी सी लड़की से एक युवती बन गई थी। कॉलेज में प्रवेश कर लिया और चिकित्सक बनने के लिए अपनी कलम और स्याही को पढ़ाई में डूबा दिया। पता नहीं, समय के दरिया में छोटी छोटी बातों से जैसे ख़ून, कटी घाव को देख कर बेहोश होने लगी। जब ऐसा बहुत बार हुआ, तो उसने अपना सपना चिकित्सक बनने का त्याग करना चाहा। पर अपनी पढ़ाई पूरी कर आगे बढ़ने की कोशिश करने को ठान लिया। घर की बड़ी बेटी थी, तो जिम्मेदारी से बच पाना मुश्किल था। अपने क़दमों को वो रोकना नहीं चाहती थी। घर के हालात संग ताल मिलाने को तैयार हो गई। जब वो बारवीं में थी, छठी कक्षा की एक लड़के को पढ़ाना शुरू कर दिया। धीरे-धीरे उसके अंदर कूट-कूट कर शिक्षा की बीज बो रही थी।

समय के दरिया बहता गया, उसने अपनी ज़िन्दगी को जीने का अंदाज़ सीख लिया था। समय के लहरों संग वो बहती गई। लड़की है, शादी तो करनी पड़ेगी। बस पढ़ाई ख़त्म हुई नहीं कि हाथ पीले कर दिया गया। आस को अपने दिल में दबा कर रखी थी। उसकी हक़ अदा किसी ने नहीं किया। पर कभी ख़ुद से हार नहीं मानी। जब वो पति के संग पुना चली गई, वहां पर अगल बगल के बच्चों को पढ़ाने लगी। बच्चों को पढ़ाने में उसको जो खुशी होती थी, कि पुछो मत। सबने उसकी आँखों के सपनों को पढ़ा था। जो अच्छे दोस्त मिले, उन्होंने उसको शिक्षिका बनने का सुझाव दिया।

आज वो ग्यारह साल से शिक्षिका को अपना साथी बनाकर एक नई पहचान बनाई है। हर रोज कुछ न कुछ सीखा और सिखाती गई सबको। बच्चों से बहुत प्यार करती थी, तो शिक्षिका बन सबकी चहेती बन गई। जब विद्यार्थी उसकी इज़्ज़त अफ़जाई करते हैं, वो सालों पुरानी बात वो शिक्षा अभियान का सोच मुस्कान भर देती है।

सही है, उसने अपने नाम को सार्थक बनाया है। "सीखा" शिक्षा की शीखा बन सबको रोशनी प्रदान करती है। उम्र का ना दीवार, ना जात-पात का प्रभाव। एक अविरल धारा की तरह बह जाती है। सबको नए विचारों से अवगत कराए वो अपने आप को सशक्त करती जाती है।

लोपामुद्रा (सीखा) की यही है कहानी।

Argument or cross answering parents

 *Argument or cross answering parents* 

With the changing time, heart and mind of everyone is changed. The lifestyle, food habits and choices are different in both the generations. The kids are more sensible, emotional and attached towards the materialistic world of technology rather than relationships like siblinghood, respect towards parents and elders. They rely on the technology and engineering like machines. 

Problem comes with a great expectation of being rich or receive good vibes without doing anything fruitful. If parents share their experiences and skills to improvise the kids, they retaliate and back- answer. It's just a situation of insult and humiliation for both. Parents may be adjusted with questions and behavioural tantrums, but kids feel insulted by the parents, if they are asked questions. They don't want to be questioned in any way. They want the freedom, in every way.

The problem is omnipresent now in heart, mind and soul. 

The solution is not there actually. But it can be handled with lots of patience and perseverance. 

* Parents have to be updated with the adolescent behaviour and hormonal changes by reading articles and videos. 

* Questions should not be asked directly to them, instead it would be better if parents behave like friends and explain the pros and cons to them indirectly.

* Though the kid is not showing interest in giving any review or feedback, but he / she must be listening to those words. They are smart enough to maintain silence. 

* Parents need to go with the flow and pace of kids. Make them feel that you are there always for them. 

See they will change their way one day, like a moulding clay.

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LopaTheWriter

Lopamudrapal27

The special person

 The special person

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" Uniqueness in every way,

Frankness at its best day,

Inquisitive in all the way,

Keeps jealousy at a bay. "

It is defining a person, who is my friend, guide, philosopher and inspiration. He was my college friend, who was a meritorious student, a great support, poet, writer and a philosopher. 

As the eldest daughter, I was always restricted with many things and judged everytime. I was craving for the wordly affection rather than discipline factors. When he saw me low, he used to try to make me happy. He told one thing- " Never expect anything from anyone, as expectations are the root cause of all the worries." These words helps me till today to stand against all the odds with strong heart and boldness of mind. He taught me how to handle the situation with a smile. He inspired me to dream big for happy and content life. We discuss each and every moment of life. I was very confident and comfortable with every thing without any hesitation and expectations. 

He wanted to be an Administrative Officer and yes, he is now. His life lessons and words are still with me. He developed lots of patience and perseverance in me with his touch of love. Our love was blooming with lots of respect and mutual understanding. Life's unattachable part, but still a part of mine....is He. He is incredible with empathetic heart. 

The metaphors will be less to explain him and his qualities. 

The divine relationship,

The meaning of everything,

The metaphors of languages,

The credibility of my life.... Is Him.

Sudden Anger issue

 *Sudden Anger issue* 

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Sudden Anger Issue is a natural phenomenon of brain that deals with situation with dilemma and procrastination. Everyone plan something for achieving his/ her goal. But time is not always same for everyone in every situation. It's like " Man proposes God disposes." 

     Now-a-days each and every one leads a busy life with different lifestyle. Within short span of time, you have to many works. Without being panic, One can do it with following tips-

* Prioritise the work accordingly.

* Plan your work and put them into proper schedule. 

* Preparation is required from brain side or note down the tasks on a notepad. 

* Execute it with calm mind. 

* If it's not done, take a long breathe and start over again. 

     Being agitated or tempered will only hamper the work and health. So mental health should be kept in control to do all the tasks on time. If it's not happening, then just leave it and relax. It may not be the time of the thing to happen.

    This is all about the person, who is agitated with sudden change in plans or cannot handle the situation immediately in a controlled manner. As a colleague or friend, we face this kind of people in our regular life. 

It's very common now. Sometimes we console them, that it's fine. But actually it's momentary solution. Being more practical, help the other person by counseling and caring. 

* Talk to the person, what's the reason behind its sudden change in behaviour.

* Go deeply in an empathetic way to solve his/ her problem.

* Be a good guide and friend. 

* It's ok to grab the moment of him / her through your life story ( may be real or imaginative ).

* To connect with the person, be cheerful and patient with positive attitude.

     Situation will change for sure. It may take time, but be a healer for everyone's better future.

 *Patience and perseverance are the key to Happier Life.* 

🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼

LopaTheWriter

Lopamudrapal27

State of Mind

 "Confused and overburdened mind,

Spoil the charm of day in every kind

The solution....If you cannot find

The time will take charge to grind."

This is the situation, I was going through within last few weeks. It's true that time is not always with you. It keeps on changing, knowingly or unknowingly. It's like the wave of a sea. You are standing at a point of beach and waiting for the big wave to drench you, but it is not coming.  But you can see big waves just around you in left and right side. Where you are standing to get it and feel it, not happening

Our life is similar to this. We plan a lots of things together for family, friends and for ourselves, but all the plans always never work. That's why the proverb is perfect- "Man proposes, God disposes.

Since few days, I can feel the writer's block and burden of work, board exam of son- all these were making me confused and overburdened. Tried to help myself by yoga and meditation, but still not happy from within. It felt like time is just slipping from my palms. I want to do many things, but time is less. It felt like- about to die, but want to live eagerly. So it's like a dilemmatic situation for me.

Sometimes the work flow is good and convenient with time. But sometimes it's too hard to cope up. If we ignore a very tiny part, it may create a huge difference and mistake too. I went through this situation. It was hard to digest for me , "how can I do this? How can I ignore this?" That happened with me, but one thing I realised that, we can overcome any problem, if we have faith.

Take a long breathe, take a break

Pray to God for help in whole mind

Keep patience in your heart

And wait for the magic to happen

As I believe in one more thing, if you think positive inspite of all odds, you can win over the odd situation. Have faith in God and yourself. Give your best shot and move on.

My Hindi poetry Solobooks

  ये दास्तां मेरे एहसासों की, मुझे जीने की राह दिखाए,

अनकहे अनसुने लफ़्ज़ों को होठों की दहलीज़ पर लाए।

औरत की तस्वीर से छलकती है यूँ हक़ीक़त की खुशबू,

इन दोनों से दोस्ती, मेरी जिंदगी की नई पहचान बनाए ।

My two solobooks are now on Amazon and thank you Notion press and Ink Zone publication for giving me this opportunity. 

Another important fact is, both paintings are done by me ( cover page and back page  of both the books ).

Thank you YQ to give me a platform to write more and better than before, helping me in improving my writing skills.