*Argument or cross answering parents*
With the changing time, heart and mind of everyone is changed. The lifestyle, food habits and choices are different in both the generations. The kids are more sensible, emotional and attached towards the materialistic world of technology rather than relationships like siblinghood, respect towards parents and elders. They rely on the technology and engineering like machines.
Problem comes with a great expectation of being rich or receive good vibes without doing anything fruitful. If parents share their experiences and skills to improvise the kids, they retaliate and back- answer. It's just a situation of insult and humiliation for both. Parents may be adjusted with questions and behavioural tantrums, but kids feel insulted by the parents, if they are asked questions. They don't want to be questioned in any way. They want the freedom, in every way.
The problem is omnipresent now in heart, mind and soul.
The solution is not there actually. But it can be handled with lots of patience and perseverance.
* Parents have to be updated with the adolescent behaviour and hormonal changes by reading articles and videos.
* Questions should not be asked directly to them, instead it would be better if parents behave like friends and explain the pros and cons to them indirectly.
* Though the kid is not showing interest in giving any review or feedback, but he / she must be listening to those words. They are smart enough to maintain silence.
* Parents need to go with the flow and pace of kids. Make them feel that you are there always for them.
See they will change their way one day, like a moulding clay.
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LopaTheWriter
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