Peer pressure...Bane or Boon

 //Peer pressure- bane or boon //

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Pressurising one or influence one with or without the consent, by different groups of people around personal level or social media is the peer pressure. This is now predominant in our society, mainly in the age group of 13 to 15 yrs. Than boys, girls are in peer pressure in accordance with clothing, behavioral and speaking skills. Boys are pressurised with self-confidence, ego and self-reliance in relation to brands, games etc. This is common in our society now. We are pressurised to show ourselves great and better than others.This peer pressure can be individual or in group. 

Yes, I have been in the same situation. During my school days, I was kept introvert. My friends were confident in speaking and communicating, but I was scared as I was told not to speak much. So I didn't know when, what to speak. The judgement of friends was scary for me. Gradually, during graduation, I started talking to people confidently and then I started overcoming this peer pressure with the help of good peers only.

It is now prevalent in our society. So, we have to teach our children to be self-reliant and to keep faith in themselves. The good and bad sides of everything should be discussed with them, mainly with adolescent kids. They need cognitive guidance and support a lot than any other age groups. Be a peer, to erase the peer pressure. 

The negative impact will be like drinking, smoking, drugs and many more, as negative things attract fast. So without any hesitation, we can teach everything about peer pressure, our financial and family situations. This will help them to make decisions, whether it is bane or boon. Lastly, we are with them as parents always.

How were you impacted by this? 

Share your thoughts here.

Food for feast

 

P.C - Lopamudra Pal 

15th Birthday party of Rick @Pune

🍔🍔Impact of Food....Food for Feast🍔🍔

Food..... Fundamental Obsession Of Diminishing hunger.

This is an integral and must requirement of each and every living organisms.

" Nothing can bring everyone together than good food." 

This unavoidable  need gives smile on face, cools down the stomach and fills the heart with calmness and peace. Many people, many thoughts regarding food. Few says " food is important, if we stop eating we will die." Few says " As we are alive, we can have food as food is not necessary or important than life." 

Food is the best way of hospitality and the respectful way of relationship. There are many importance of food, as we all know. This is the vital part of life and lifestyle.

Food helps us to grow physically with lots of nutritional values, but socially it has more impact on our life. In our life, from birth to death we celebrate many occasions. We invite our near and dear ones to be a part of our happiness or in sorrows. When we greet people to our place, we offer water, juice, snacks, main course in form of lunch and dinner. These are the minimum etiquettes we have learnt from childhood. But we forget or neglect the impact of food on our daily life or on special days. 

When a child is born, the happiness is shared with sweets, then rituals like naming ceremony, first rice feeding, birthdays etc.. Consecutively these are the steps moving forwarded with age.

When naming ceremony is organised, the food is associated with different forms like prasad, having lunch or dinner with many delicious food. The prepared menu may be vegetarian or non-vegetarian, but food arrangement is must.

If the guest have the food properly in tummy full and peace in heart, the host is satisfied heartily.

It impacts on our daily life, in terms of tiffins to office, school etc. This food is nothing a bonding between the host and the guest. The satisfaction of host can be felt with the smile on the face of guest. This brings them together and boring gets more stronger. This creates good memory that lasts long. 

In the same case, when anybody dies, during eleventh or twelfth day the feast is arranged for peace of the departed soul. Guests show sympathy and it creates bonding between the two persons and the family members too. 

The impact of food in form of needs and feast are always powerful with great aesthetic essence. 

" FEED GOOD FOOD, 

CREATE GOOD MOOD."

This must be the essence. I believe in feeding with pure heart and soul, makes a person happy. The strong bond between human beings ever and ever.

Mind Election against Addiction

✨✨Mind Election against Addiction✨✨

Often I ask myself, 

what should I do, what should not I do!

During the questionnaire session

Heart says to quit,

Mind opposes it but slight.

In the dust and dawn,

I find the beautiful sun,

Going to and fro, help the world to run.

The heart asks me,

"Why cant you quit?

Be like the immortal sun,

Don't be too stubborn."

They realisation Jar of mind

Now became very kind,

But heart said something now,

It does not matching with the mind.

I tried to quit my long-run addiction,

But I failed many times, as it didn't

satisfy my expectations.

Tried harder and harder

and said to myself again,

" I will not touch cigarette from tomorrow",

But alas! With the rising sun, 

every resolution went in vain.

With the love and care from my partner,

I thought of my beautiful life

just now and then,

But after trying many times,

everything and every time,

The Beautiful Addiction Love came to me again.

I found myself in a dilemmatic situation,

Why I started it years ago,

Now in the trap of this habit of smoking cigarettes ,

Just hitting me and my So called Ego.

I tried not to look at it or think of this addiction,

But after some hours,

Felt dizziness and lack of concentration.

The addiction was the part of my working lifestyle now,

I try to quit for my better health,

But can't get the way of "how".

Still I do, what I don't want to do,

But I will quit my addiction 

in few days or in months too.

I will play with my mind and heart

and start observing the addiction lit, 

If I will be stubborn enough with my thoughts,

I can deal with the addiction kit.

Let me make my brain the 

strong opposition party,

Let's play the election game, 

for quiting addiction dignity.

Hope the day will come soon,

I will too say,

I do, what I think to do,

I don't do, what I don't want to do.

So use the brainpower,

make it more stronger,

Get rid of addictions,

From then, now and never.

Rest with zest

 

 

Rest with zest

Keep yourself calm and cool,

Take s break from your schedule

Don't be like old school.

Work will be completed

with all its glorious parts,

Help your mind with little zest

and think about your heart.

Just chill and take rest and 

give time to take test.

When heart,body and mind 

balance is done,

Soul shows its ecstatic shades.

REST, A simple word,but very complicated. It has many meanings with prefixes and suffixes.But the REST means to keep your time for yourself, maintain body and mind balance. ME time that fixes the problem and rejuvenate you, is the perfect time for resting body and testing mind for creating new ideas. We in our daily lives don't take out time for ourselves and then starts blame-game. Sometimes we indulge into the problems so badly that we cannot realise what we are getting and what we are losing. We try to satisfy each and every one, professionally and personally. But it's not always possible. Still we try harder and harder to get it done. We get really tired of being perfect. Perfection and being perfect is good,but not always. 

We as human beings, gets frustrated and take wrong steps. We can go on verge of breaking relationship too. But we don't realise the main problem. We don't look at the angle,that we actually need a break and want to take rest with zest.We need to get a break from everything we do,we think, we plan,we cook,we read,we write... everything. "Just be with me", that should be the essence of being in rest. 

The heart is a very small thing,but very precious. It undertands all the feelings, situations, emotions, good,bad ... everything. Resting the heart means rejuvinating it with more good and positive thoughts. The longevity increases. Now, everyone is overloaded with work and the pressure is burdened with bad impact on heart and mind. It affects family members, other relations as well. Keeping yourself cool for all situations is the only solution. It can be taken by taking a break for resting. Divide the works among family members and spread equality. Work is a never ending thread. It's s continuous process. We need to take rest for making the future bonding strong enough to handle all the odds. 

"Stop overthinking. 

You cannot control or change everything. 

Let the things go with the flow."

An understanding heart is always a tired one. It takes out positivity from negativity.

It too gets tired.It too needs rest for a while. But actually we don't take. We should go for the break for our heart, mind, body and soul. Close your eyes, think nothing. Leave the worries behind. Keep your mind cool with low volume soothing music. Take long breathe, exhale and inhale. Feel the power of heart and brain syncing together. Then your nerves of brains will run in a supersonic way. 

Taking a break in any way,is to get yourself in a Restart Mode. Sit in the balcony and look around the nature with a deep breath. Feel serenity and calmness within . That's the result of  rest with zest. 

What's your address of rest? Share your thoughts here.

Shades of relation(poem)

 SHADES OF RELATIONS

The journey of life is twists and turns with full of delight,
Reach out the destination with lots of care and little fight.

Make new relationship with the the drop of commitment,
Responsibility is huge, maintain it with low temperament.

All the relations are based on pile of modesty and dignity,
Most importantly be loyal to yourself and shine with loyalty.

Compile everything into one and only You, with a smile,
All the relations will be flowing like a river mile after mile.

Keep the treasure of life as a gift with all the happiness,
Commit to the relations, to fulfill its beauty and the essence.

_. LopaTheWriter

Hi friends, welcome to the August month. I keep writing for your quote and iconic quotes, somehow in busy schedules i got time for my Blog.

In 50 days of journey, i am rewarded with gifts in terms of royalty and testimonials. 

Thank you so much readers. It's your blessings only ,am here now among poets.

In the above poem, I have tried to pen few shades of relation. It was a task with 5 words given. But while thinking about topic, i was like flown by our own life n its essence.

Please read and give me the feedback.

Keep reading....

Keep smiling...😊

Few milestones covered as a Writer

 

 

Hi all, glad to inform you about my first winning moment with first position on a picture poem. The picture was given,i thought of the "break the chain" rule from corona prevention.
I wrote the above poem in that picture ans won the competition. Received testimonials from क़लम_ए_हयात community of writers in your quote app.

After many years,i explored a writer in me,who can write at least poems with given topic. Everyday we are given some topics,we should write as per the rules and regulations. 

I will share more winning poems here.

 

Pls read my poems and share your thoughts and views.

Keep smiling, Keep inspiring. Keep Writing.

More to explore and to learn more.

Never stop learning.

My link of your quote is shared here 

https://www.yourquote.in/lopamudra-pal-c4nzi/quotes

For iconic quotes...link is as below 

https://iconicquote.blogspot.com/search/label/lopathewriter?m=1?&max-results=9 

Mind is an Ocean....

 Hi friends, after many days am writing blog. Now am busy in writing,yes but in different platforms like your quote and iconic quotes. Just tried my hand as a writer. People are liking my writings and encouraging me to read more to write more. Now i am learning many new vocabulary and grammar usage in Hindi,Urdu, English and odia too.

My mind is an Ocean...

My mind is an Ocean

Of deep and sensible thoughts,

My heart is a garden with leaves,roses and thorns,

My life is a machine with delicate minute parts,

My eyes are lakes seized with cool scenes of nature,

My soul is a river with curvy and cool juncture.

         ...... LopatheWriter   (Lopamudra Pal)

Yes.my pen name is LopaTheWriter suggested by my younger sister Gargi Mohanty and my husband Mr. Indrajit Pal. It's a collaborative effort of both of them.

After i wrote this quote,i realised that yes,my mind is like an Ocean . With continuous learning,I try to write more and more . Not only my mind, we can say All our minds are like an Ocean only. We all can relate to this quote. But in this ocean we should keep good and positive thoughts. We will die one day,but we will be remained in the hearts with good deeds. So keep learning and motivate everyone- should be the motto.

Life shows many thorns, but we always prefer to  smell the rose😊 🌹🌹🌹.

My mind is an Ocean of vocabulary and grammar if 4 languages and cultures including painting and drawing.

What's occupied by your mind???? Don't hesitate to share your thoughts.😊😊

So keep learning, Keep moving, Keep inspiring and keep loving.

First Testimonial from #rks ( Rachna ka Saar-रचना का सार)

 

I am glad to share my happiness with you all. First Testimonial from#rks ( रचना का सार) for participating in the poetry writing competition .

Topic was ग़म का सलीका न था। In competition,it's the second poem I wrote and it was placed in best 20 among 208quotes on this title.

Within a big group of writers,my poem was appreciated,it's a great thing for me. It gives encouragement to read more and write more. 

Thank you everyone for liking my writings and encouraging me. 

One more interesting thing happened...i started writing quotes in your quote app on Father's day with a poem on dad and completed 500 with my mom.

That's the superb journey till now.

Hope to pen more and more, you too read more and more.

Thank you all.

Trip to Pawna Lake, Lonavala

 It's a beautiful weekend with an outing plan. Now after Lockdown is at its ease, we thought of taking a break and go for a long drive. It's Pawna lake 32 kms ahead of Lion's point where normally people go to relax. The day was full of hide and seek game. Sometimes it was raining, sometimes sun is peeping in the sky. After the professional duty as a teacher, i reached home around 12:30 pm. Then we all had lunch and started for Lonavala. It was in the mind that ,if we were not allowed to enter Lonavala,then we will stop at a solitude place n spend some time, click  few pictures and return to the pavillion. By God's grace,we visited a beautiful place with cool breeze n scenic beauty. Google map led us to a different way and we went to a hillside. View was awesome! Spend some time there n clicked few minutes. Our friends were about to meet up at a point, but they were too lost due to Google map deviation. It's fine for us. At least we are breathing in the Nature. That's the pleasure. We were already in a different way n turned back to Pawna lake point. Shared the current location with friends. While waiting for them, we had coffee n snacks. After 1hr they reached n we all with our new friend. We went towards the lake, but it was a long walking road. Till lake it's not allowed as it's depth. We all had a great time. After many days I had fun with my boy Rick. He is a teenager now. Mingling of the fun and family ❤️ is just a blessing.

Am sharing few clicks of that awesome time with nature.

After nature trail, time to come back home. On the way we stopped at food court near toll plaza. 

Feeling lucky to be in the nature. That's the favourite getaway for us.

What's yours.

Fresh Start

 

To start afresh in the morning, gives you boosting  energy to be uploaded with joy and happiness. It gives mind a positive attitude to solve the problems that come in your way. For that, you need to have a better sleep yesterday night. Sleeping with bright and calm mind helps you to remember the things in a better and organised way. So in the mind, plan for the next day, organise the things in a proper way. Before sleeping, read a book or article on positivity, motivation and relax your mind , then you can have a great sleep. Your sleep will speak about the next day morning n your morning will say about the whole day.

I read quotes, horoscope articles and shayaris before sleeping, sometimes listen few favourite songs . 

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What's your idea of a good sleep ? Plz share.

My first booklet of 25quotes

 Hi everyone! Today i got a reward from yourquote.in ,in the form of a online booklet. This is my first booklet, where my first 25 quotes are  published in the site. I joined on 20th June 2021 and within 3 days i completed posting 25 quotes and i  could download my booklet. This booklet i can now use as a print idea of  merchandises, tea n coffee mugs etc. 

Its really a good day for me. It is giving me inspiration and motivation to explore new things and ideas to tread n write. I will thank my school ex-principal, she has always inspired me to read more and more to gain knowledge about English as am from vernacular medium & few people made fun of my speaking skill. I try to overcome that with my writing skill.

Love for hindi was there since childhood, now with age n time it's like a daily dose for me. Still I have to go a long way. I have to read more and write more. 

Thank you all for liking my writings. Your words encourage me a lot. Thank you for my invisible blessings and love. 

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Musical Yogic healers

  

 

MUSIC IS LOVE OF LIFE.   

We all love to Listen to the music in all the forms. Nature has given this opportunity to us. She is the creator of all kinds of music. The flow of river, sound of waterfall, blowing of air, moving of leaves on the branches of the trees, animals sound, birds chirping, baby's first cry etc..

In current scenario,we need this music very badly to erase the stress from our lives. It acts as a healer and a doctor without prescription.

 

Today also international Yoga day is celebrated. It too relates with music. It has beats, counting for the breathing in and out. If  yoga is mixed with the music, it's a divine feeling. One can get peace of the mind with this musical and yogic healers. Daily  practice makes you feel better and better. You will feel lighter in brain and heart.

NO STRESS,

NO BURDEN,

NO ANXIETY, 

NO PAIN. ....ONLY PEACE & PEACE. 

According to facts, if you listen 5-10 songs daily, your 80% stress is reduced.  Is there any other way to improvise your mental condition except this ? 

FOR HEALTH BENEFITS, DO YOGA.

FOR MIND BENEFITS, LISTEN MUSIC. 😊

I do mix these two as its most integral part of me since childhood. I believe that everyone will agree to this fact. So these two important events are celebrated on a single day. 

Enjoy your Day😊. Have fun and tap your feet with your favourite music.

My Hero ... DADDY ( BAPA)

 

We call the man....Daddy

The first love of a child,

Always hold us so tight,

He makes our life bright,

He burns himself as a candle light.

He never shades a tear,

If we can feel his fear,

He too feels sad and drowned,

He never shows us his sad ground.

Still he stands still for all the odds,

He is the living GOD for me than all the GODS.

He was with me,

He is with me,

He will be with me ALWAYS,

He is the pillar of my life in any other way.

Got the culture,discipline, etiquettes from you,

You will be always in me,I promise you.

I owe my life to you,

I can nothing without you,

You taught morals in a story way,

Taught to lead life in systematic way.

It's impossible to repay you n your deeds,

Your love and affection is incomparable 

It's beyond all the world's expensive gifts.

                               - Lopa ( Guddi )

Love you BAPA.

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY 

Many things i can write for you to explain you and your love, sacrifices. It's very short. 

One experience I will share here with you all.

On March 24 1994, my dad,mom , brother and sister were going to All India Radio to attend a program.  They all four met with a dangerous accident at cantonment road, Cuttack around 8:00 pm. They were on Bajaj chetak scooter. After that they all were scattered here and there. Luckily the Police van was about to enter their office ground. They came after hearing the dashed sound. The police department people took them to the  SCB medical immediately. 

But in the meantime,when my dad was on the ground, he picked up his broken right leg from thigh. But alas! It just hung. He thought that his leg will be amputed. Suddenly he moved his right toe  n it moved. Then he got sure THAT WHATEVER BE THE TREATMENT WILL BE, MY LEG IS NOT GOING TO BE AMPUTED. There are the words gave him mental support to be back on his toes after two major operations in 3-4 months of gap. 

I have seen always be positive in all the odds situations. I got this lesson from him ...TO BE STRONG IN ALL THE ODDS,THEN GOD WILL HELP YOU IN ANY OTHER WAY. 

Thus ia a great lesson i got from my dad. I can say ...am energetic as my dad only. He is my energy toner.

What's your story...pls share.

NAME or NUMBER

 

Yes...it must be shocking for everyone. What's the difference between name and number? Yes, it's the recognition of yours in a hospital bed. The patient in a hospital is only recognised by its bed or room number. It's the fact. Recent experience of my husband's kidney stone removal operation instigated me from inside and I really felt something different about it. He is fine now. But now got a great lesson of health  ignorance.

It all starts with our HEALTH. If we all will be careful about our HEALTH & FITNESS, we may not end at hospital. 

Everywhere you are called by your name, except hospital and after death. 

Our name is our identity. It carries literal meaning, spiritual effect, love and affection with lots of emotions of parents. We should not let it go like this as we can do good to keep it in a good condition.

HEALTH IS WEALTH - We have heard it since childhood,but still we ignore as if we don't know anything. Getting careless about our body, lead us into enormous pain and trauma. It has simple solution- 

Eat healthy,

Drink Water ,

Do Exercise,

Stress Less,

Laugh More,

Live Healthy Life ever after.

These are the mantras of a healthy life. Change your lifestyle and see the Changes.

Try your best to keep your name as NAME only , don't make it a NUMBER.

Just need a BREAK

 

BREAK- A simple word,but very complicated. It has many meanings with prefixes and suffixes.But the BREAK means the interval,the ME time that fixes the problem and rejuvenate you. We in our daily lives don't take out time for ourselves and then starts blame-game. Sometimes we indulge into the problems so badly that we cannot realise what we are getting and what we are losing. We try to satisfy each and every one, professionally and personally. But it's not always possible. Still we try harder and harder to get it done. We get really tired of being perfect. Perfection and being perfect is good,but not always. 

We as human beings, gets frustrated and take wrong steps. We can go on verge of breaking relationship too. But we don't realise the main problem. We don't look at the angle,that we actually need a break. 

We need to get a break from everything we do,we think, we plan,we cook,we read,we write... everything. Just be with me, that should be the essence of being in break.

The heart is a very small thing,but very precious. It undertands all the feelings, situations, emotions, good,bad ... everything. 

An understanding heart is always a tired one. It takes out positivity from negativity.

It too gets tired. We need a break,we say. But actually we don't take. We should go for the break for our heart, mind, body and soul. 

Plan an unplanned trip, just drive n go where you can go & can feel serenity. Stop there and just look around yourself,only the nature,cool breeze and then feel the heartbeat. That sound will wake you up from your inner side. You will find peace within. Just let go everything. It's the best time, the BREAK time. Talk to yourself, listen to your heart. No one is there to judge you. BE YOU. Take a deep breath and rejoice with yourself. Then your nerves of brains will run in a supersonic way. That's the result of Break. 

If you can't go out, just chill, sit on the couch and take a power nap. It's very helpful. 

Taking a break in any way,is to get yourself in a Restart Mode. 

My idea is to sit in the balcony and look around the nature with a deep breath. Feel serenity and calmness within . 

What's your idea of taking a Break ? Share your views.

SILENCE 🤐

SILENCE 

Silence is the weapon,to keep you calm,
Silence is the thought,to keep you planned.

Silence has the most beautiful feeling,
It can make you strong and help you healing.

Silence cannot be understood by everyone,
It is a special cup of tea, not meant for everyone.

Silence doesn't matter to those, who hurts you,
Silence of yours, kills the person who loves you.

Silence is golden moments to feel the emotions,
Silence is always taken as a result of demotions.

Be the silent Sun, brighten up the day,
Be the cool moon, lighten up the sky,
with lovely shiny twinkling stars on the sly.
Be yourself in silence,
Feel your  precious presence,
That's the essence of the silence. 

Silence has its own words,
Need a kind heart to read those,
Not all can be the part of it,
It's not of everyone's dose.

Silence helps you to rise as a sun,
Silence helps you to grow as a moon,
Silence helps you to be as  the stars,
Silence helps you to be the beautiful person with numerous scars.

                         -  Lopa
                         16.06.21

Silence is not the killer, it's the Healer for those who are in pain. It gives you the energy to grow above your limits. It pushes you to another level. It helps you to understand the values of yours.

Make silence your weapon, not your weakness. People around you may not understand the situation what you are going through, but you can stand up for yourself and can read your vibration of your body,mind and soul. Don't expect anyone that, he / she will understand your silence 🤐 and will try to reach you. Let's the world see you after the breakage of silence. Use this silence in a wise way for yourself,for your self esteem. 

Let the world judge your silence in its own way. But you enjoy from within and let the silence kill others. 

My best friend KRISHNA

 

 

MY BEST FRIEND KRISHNA 

Everyday I hear you,
I mesmerize every moment,
I want to be with you,
Lovely magic you create.

Your flute is so soothing,
We forget our grazing,
Just want to listen you,
Like you, both the eyes closing.

You are in our souls,
You are our life,
You are the whole world,
You are the musical jive.

Moment with you is very nice,
You are healer and very wise,
You make us feel happy,
We wait for the sun to rise.

Everyday feels new,with you,
You are our best friend Krishna,
All the animals and birds really love you.

The universe is yours,
We are the tiny creatures,
You are the creater, You are the Healer.
               - Lopa
               11.06.21

ATTACHMENT

 Life is really very unpredictable. Its never been easy to accept what it shows us, what it brings to us, whether laughter or sorrow. But when you are deeply into something and its dragged from you gradually, it hurts like someone is killing you from inside. In few cases, when you know its not yours, cannot be yours, but still you are in love with that thing and later you are forced to leave it,its the worst feeling. It is very painful and difficult to handle. Not only you, your emotions, feelings, the madness attached with it. These are difficult to handle. During this lockdown, many things are thrown unused, many relations are fallen apart, many hearts are broken, many lives are miserable.

If feelings had an switch Off button, then it would be easy. As a human being, we get attached to the things, persons very easily. Is it good ? or Should we ask our brain or heart before liking something? Why our body secretes Oxytocin hormones and we start falling for that thing as its make us happy! Attachment to any particular thing is really bad for everyone. 

ATTACHMENT

Hold on yourself, before you jump,

Look at yourself, before you dump,

Look around you, What's good for you,

Keep the things, less attached to you.

Attachment gives you pain,

Without any gain,

Make it free from your heart, 

Stay it as it's falling apart.

May it be good for you later,

But don't leave hope for the better future.

Attach your heart to the positive things,

It will give you a higher flying wings.

Attachment to yourself is the greatest hope,

Universe will give you enormous Love.

                         - Lopa

Yes, it's difficult to get rid of those attachments. But for our inner happiness and the life, we have to go to our deeper feelings and keep ourselves strong enough to handle heart breakings. Because we get attached to small daily needs things in a bad way. 

THINK, STOP , CONTROL & MOVE ON. 

Share your thoughts, what would you do ?

End of the Prodigy - Sushant

 

Sushant Singh Rajput, was not only a great actor, but also a very happy, cheerful, positive soul who knew to live the life its fullest. He lived short,but sweet was his memories. His work inspired people, so he is still in everyone's heart. 

Once I saw his home tour video in YouTube and I was mesmerized by his room decor n passion towards physics. He was a born talent, prodigy. Fine in all line. From emotional level to professional level. It's true that what's going on with other person's mind. He was the victim of brutality. His murder mystery is unsolved till now.

When I heard the news,he committed suicide I couldn't believe it. The person who is a fitness freak and has positive attitude towards Life,wanted to complete Mars mission training in NASA,how can end his own life !

Then I wrote a poem on that 

https://youtu.be/urp8aqv5sPw

Poem - Maa ne kaha

It reminded me of that person n the day. Still in everyone's heart and soul. He is a beautiful soul, was and will be always in everyone's heart.

Stay in peace 🙏 ....in God's lap.

Self-Pity

 

Good morning everyone, who is reading to this blog. When I got up in the morning, I just went through messages. I found it very relevant with our lives, i.e. SELF-PITY. In our Indian culture, we the women are mainly brought up with the feelings of giving, sacrifices, compromises, live life on father's then husband's choices and many more. We are not allowed to think about ME or US as an individual. Women can sacrifice many things, but in return she cannot ask for anything. She is not allowed to do, till now. If she asks for just love, empathy, care and affection, then its a big and costly thing as if she is asking for. Am not blaming anyone in particular, but the mentality of our society is very MEAN towards women. 

Now each and every woman wants to be independent in her own thinking, her own choices, wants freedom in everything she does. But she is still not allowed to do so. 

Friends, we are living in such a hypocritical world. We are told to do one thing, but expectations from us is different . Even more than our capability. Its true. Now BREAK THE CHAIN. LIVE FOR YOU & YOUR DREAMS. ITS NEVER TOO LATE TO START. LIFE IS OURS, SO AS CHOICES.

As a mother, if we cannot withstand for our things then our kids will never understand the meaning of being a woman. We have to live our life with all the emotions, sympathy, empathy, wilderness and madness for our goals. Many times we face something negative situation and start blaming ourselves. Its put in our genes. Whatever problems occur in the lives of our family or in surroundings, we are the BLAMERS. Before the world point out us, we start blaming - Its happening because of me, I have done something wrong etc. 

STOP BLAMING YOURSELF. STOP BEING SELF-PITY. 

If we will not stop blaming ourselves, we cannot GROW. Before the world judge you, you rectify your mistake if you are wrong. But never be so humble to carry loads of others mistakes by blaming yourself. Self-pity leads you nowhere except depression and suicidal motives. 

You create a creative space for yourself, make a strong wall of Hope and Confidence around it. Don't let the negativity enters into your Space to break you down. If you can know the reason of the negativity, please keep yourself away from it. Meditate and release negativity. Attract POSITIVITY and LIVE life in a HAPPIER WAY. 

As , NOBODY IS GOING TO DO YOUR LIFE FOR YOU.

What's your view? Share your thoughts.

Khud ki Soch

Khud ki soch pe ho guroor,

Khud ki soch par rakh kadam,

Duniya itni jale tujhse ki,

Khaakh main meete tere saare gham. 

                                                  - Lopa

Life is not easy for anyone. Each and every person goes through hard time in its lifetime.

No one is blessed with full happiness. No-one's life is full of sorrows too. So instead of being negative in life, try to smile at the negativity and have faith in God. The most important thing is to believe in yourself. If you have faith in yourself, God will help you. 

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND YOUR LIFE WILL REJUVENATE. 

Think positive about yourself and your thinking,start working on it without any hesitation and hinderance from heart and mind. Be firm with your decision and have faith in God. You will succeed. 

It's true, if God is there,so as Evil. When someone starts doing good, then the world is always there to oppose that with all the possible way. This situation is very critical and not easy to handle as an individual. Uncontrolled situation, uncontrolled emotions, cry out loud,take out the frustration, but don't accept the defeat. 

Stand up for yourself ,not for anyone. Give others opportunity to make your sorrows less in quantity as they will be jealous and you will be more focused. 

BE STRONG AND CONFIDENT IN YOUR DECISION n SEE THE CHANGES.

What you say ?

 

Hold me tight

 Hold Me Tight

Loving you, loving myself

Feeling you, feeling myself

Seeing you, seeing myself

Respecting you, respecting myself.

Circle of Life is so sweet,

Your memories hold me tight.

Embrace the moments,

Embrace this so tight,

This love n care will make,

Our life full of delight.

Hold me tight,

Hold me tight. 

                        -Lopa 

Loving someone is not just a feeling of being affectionate or being in a romantic mood. It's not just kisses and hugs. It needs a lot of effort to maintain. 

Love needs CARE, RESPECT AND SUPPORT OF EACH OTHER in any situation, whether good or bad. Whatever may be the situation, your partner will never let you go down. He / she will hold you tightly like a baby and cuddle you up with all the love and affection. 

Love makes you feel better and better than ever. 

It makes you live in Present moment, make that moment memorable. So that you can cherish it later. These sweet memories are the most precious and beautiful 💞 moments you hold in your heart forever ❤️.

LIVE IN PRESENT N MAKE BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES.

Zindagi ki Gaadi

Life is full of sorrows and joy, Just in every situation you have to enjoy. Sorrow helps you to grow into a more stronger person,so that you can move with the flow. Joy is easily acceptable, but it too passes. Nothing stays with us forever. 

Life is very unpredictable,but the journey must be completed and show must go on.

It never stops for anyone, anything in any situation. Try to look at the brighter side of the life and make yourself strong.

Keep faith in God, have emotions and feelings in your heart and move on. That's my mantra .

What's yours?

 

WHITE

 

Be Pure as White, 

Spread Radiant Light.

You can create life,

That's full of Delight.

It's the colour of purity,

It's shows the clarity.

It's symbol of wholeness,

It reflects the cleanliness.

It shows the new beginning,

It means ur soul is awakening.

It symbolises simplicity,

It creates the equality

                                    - Lopa 

White is regarded as the purest form of colours.An artist adds it up with any dark colour , the colour gradient is changed into the lighter one. 

Same as with the human being. If you are in a bad phase of life,try to get light from inside,from your inner feelings. Take deep breath and see the magic. That will radiate in your mind as if you got the solution of the problem. You can see your life and it's perspectives in a different way.

White is the favorite color of Lord Shiva. He is the Healer. Monday born people can relate to it, same as me.

White is my favourite and lucky colour.

What's your favourite colour and what you feel about it ?

Love with Care

 

I may not call you,

But I care for you.

I may not see you,

But I pray for you.

I may not kiss you,

But I too miss you.

I may not hold you,

But I do feel you.

I may not be with you,

But I am there with you.

I may not meet you,

But I always miss you.

I may not say you,

But I love you ❤️.

                                - Lopa 

Love has many shades. It doesn't need any clarification or opinion. 

 बस हो जाता है

When you get love, your heart blooms like flowers, heartbeat runs at hundred speed or more than that. You feel blessed. But when you are apart from your beloved, you feel detached and start cursing the time, madness roams around you. 

But if you change your thought process and ask for your lover's happiness,you can not choose any wrong way to reach him/ her.

The best thing you can do,is Prayer with trust and hope.

Make him/ her feel so precious and Important,that person will forget the distance between you two. The love will rejuvenate again like before when you were together. The long distance relationship is the new era love school, due to lockdown. 

As we all know, after the darkness sun brights with all its power in a new way,with a new day.

Keep your love in prayers and blessings always.

That shows the love, respect, trust and happiness for each other. 

DON'T FORGET TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR LOVE. Few minutes will give you energy and make you feel better. 

My idea for maintaining a long distance relationship is TRUST, RESPECT WITH LOTS OF LOVE, mainly the COMMUNICATION.

What's your idea, please share.

SOFTNESS & KINDNESS

 

SOFTNESS &  KINDNESS - are two different words with Different meaning. 

When everything goes well with you,you feel better,soft and full of kindness. You feel content. But when something goes wrong, the situation wants us to be strong enough to handle it,we need to be hard from inside and outside. To withstand the elements of the situation,we can be hard from outside,but should be kind and loving from inside like a coconut. 

Always be the cake of your life,so that you can spread love and happiness always around yourself. 

Keep softness and Kindness together with you, but do not let others to take advantage of it. That's the adverse side.

Be strong with Kind heart and lots of softness.

Face the world, You will overcome all the problems.

Share your views, what's your cake of life?

Recycling ideas

REDUCE

RE-USE

RECYCLE ♻️

RE-IMAGINE 

RECREATE 

RESTORE .......these are the mantras for saving our environment. 

The relationship of human and environment is like husband and wife. The more they love each other and care for each other with lots of respect, it's the Earth is the best place to live in.

The more ego, seniority, jealousy, superior feelings, selfishness shadows the relationship,then it becomes toxic. The toxicity is felt by both the persons, same with the Earth & Human. 

So just try to recycle ♻️ the things around us,so that we can get maximum benefits out of it. By spending less money, we can create more and more things for our home. We can use papers for paperbags, decorative items like paper quilling diyas, coasters and many more. 

Use plastic bottles as planters. Hanging, self watered planters and many more.

Here am sharing some pictures of different types of planters. 

Recycled old materials into new planters for indoor plants.

You can check out my YouTube channel for the video.

Link is given below 👇

https://youtu.be/TkPyZHtm8-w

Share your ideas with me.

Let's get more creative with each other.

SMILE

 

Good morning everyone.

Smile, more as you can. It's a beautiful gift to human race from GOD. The more you smile, more you can be happy from within and all the works will be done smoothly & joyfully. 

Pure hearts are full of joy and happiness. They all have smiling face with beautiful n truthful heart. If you smile at anyone, anytime you may get a smile in return too. That will fill your heart with joy and the day will be cheerful. 

Every creation of God has its own values. If you look at it in a joyful way, your heart will be filled with joy. 

Have a nice day with a big smile. 

😊 For you all. 

Shayari love

https://youtube.com/shorts/azOjg7kn4DI?feature=share 

Shayari is my love. Not only shayari I pen poetry in odia, Hindi and English too. I have written few short stories too,in odia. 

Since when I was 14yrs old, started writing poems. During lockdown again I have started writing poems and record for my YouTube channel. 

Here is my YouTube link for latest short video.

https://youtube.com/shorts/azOjg7kn4DI?feature=share 

Labzoan ko ijaazat nahin hai, 

Tera naam lene ka,

Par Sajde main tujhe maangti jaroor hoon.

Tu mujhe mile yaa naa mile,

Ek deedar ko teri tarasti jaroor hoon.

                       - Lopa 

Love is eternal. It can happen to anyone at any age. Sometimes we cannot take out the name of our beloved to the world. What an irony!!!

Please share your view.