Self-Pity

 

Good morning everyone, who is reading to this blog. When I got up in the morning, I just went through messages. I found it very relevant with our lives, i.e. SELF-PITY. In our Indian culture, we the women are mainly brought up with the feelings of giving, sacrifices, compromises, live life on father's then husband's choices and many more. We are not allowed to think about ME or US as an individual. Women can sacrifice many things, but in return she cannot ask for anything. She is not allowed to do, till now. If she asks for just love, empathy, care and affection, then its a big and costly thing as if she is asking for. Am not blaming anyone in particular, but the mentality of our society is very MEAN towards women. 

Now each and every woman wants to be independent in her own thinking, her own choices, wants freedom in everything she does. But she is still not allowed to do so. 

Friends, we are living in such a hypocritical world. We are told to do one thing, but expectations from us is different . Even more than our capability. Its true. Now BREAK THE CHAIN. LIVE FOR YOU & YOUR DREAMS. ITS NEVER TOO LATE TO START. LIFE IS OURS, SO AS CHOICES.

As a mother, if we cannot withstand for our things then our kids will never understand the meaning of being a woman. We have to live our life with all the emotions, sympathy, empathy, wilderness and madness for our goals. Many times we face something negative situation and start blaming ourselves. Its put in our genes. Whatever problems occur in the lives of our family or in surroundings, we are the BLAMERS. Before the world point out us, we start blaming - Its happening because of me, I have done something wrong etc. 

STOP BLAMING YOURSELF. STOP BEING SELF-PITY. 

If we will not stop blaming ourselves, we cannot GROW. Before the world judge you, you rectify your mistake if you are wrong. But never be so humble to carry loads of others mistakes by blaming yourself. Self-pity leads you nowhere except depression and suicidal motives. 

You create a creative space for yourself, make a strong wall of Hope and Confidence around it. Don't let the negativity enters into your Space to break you down. If you can know the reason of the negativity, please keep yourself away from it. Meditate and release negativity. Attract POSITIVITY and LIVE life in a HAPPIER WAY. 

As , NOBODY IS GOING TO DO YOUR LIFE FOR YOU.

What's your view? Share your thoughts.